What you're wondering.
The questions we hear most, answered honestly. Don't see yours? Email us.
You create a profile on the site. You share who you are, add a few photos and answer a short questionnaire. Five minutes of work, and you are set.
Short on time? You can pause anytime and continue later. Everything stays saved.
Yes. Signing up and making your profile is free.
You only pay once there is a match for you and you both want to plan the date. One time, no subscription.
An email address, a few recent photos and your socials. Plus a short questionnaire about who you are and what you're looking for.
That's all. We only ask for what we need to find you a good match.
We verify your identity via iDIN, the system you also know from your bank. It takes two minutes and stays fully private.
That way everyone you meet knows for sure the other person is real. We never share your data with other users.
We find your match by hand. Real people who read your profile and your answers and pick someone we think you'll click with.
We pay attention to what you're looking for, how you live and what genuinely matters to you, beyond surface traits. We connect you only once we think it fits.
Honestly? We are just starting and have no data yet.
The idea started from the angle that you have nothing to lose and we only match you once we have actually found someone we think is a nice date.
Always. Before you meet anyone, you get a short note from us on why we think it fits. If it doesn't appeal to you, you say no. No questions asked.
We'll keep looking, at no extra cost. We'd rather take a little more time than push you into anything.
Yes, explicitly. In your profile you indicate who you're open to and which relationship form you're looking for, and that's what we match on.
We look for someone who fits you.
We help. Once you both say yes, we find a moment that works for both of you and a nice place to meet.
We arrange the reservation for you. For now we do that by hand. All you do is show up.
A date costs 15 euros. For the first beta testers in Utrecht it is 7,50 in July.
That happens, it is part of dating. We do not promise to find the love of your life. We make the odds of a nice date high, and that is it.
No one but us. When you match, you see blurred parts of each other's profile, not the whole thing. You also have to trust us a little.
Stored encrypted, never shared with third parties.
You can delete your profile and wipe all your data at any time. In two taps, done.
Yes. If you don't want to match for a while, you put your profile on pause. It stays quietly saved.
When you're ready again, you pick up right where you left off.
Still have a question?
Email us at support@duivendates.nl and we'll help you out.
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